{"id":4154,"date":"2026-04-11T10:38:13","date_gmt":"2026-04-11T10:38:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/?p=4154"},"modified":"2026-04-11T10:38:13","modified_gmt":"2026-04-11T10:38:13","slug":"preco-si-muzi-nevazia-verne-a-milujuce-zeny-remarqueova-neocakavana-odpoved","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/?p=4154","title":{"rendered":"Pre\u010do si mu\u017ei nev\u00e1\u017eia vern\u00e9 a miluj\u00face \u017eeny: Remarqueova neo\u010dak\u00e1van\u00e1 odpove\u010f"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pre\u010do mu\u017ei neocenia to, \u010do maj\u00fa: Remarqueova krut\u00e1 pravda o \u013eudsk\u00fdch il\u00fazi\u00e1ch<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Niekedy sa rozhovory o rodine neza\u010d\u00ednaj\u00fa be\u017en\u00fdmi s\u0165a\u017enos\u0165ami na dom\u00e1cnos\u0165, ale hlbok\u00fdmi \u00favahami \u2013 akoby sme listovali v starej knihe, ktorej str\u00e1nky s\u00fa nasiaknut\u00e9 sk\u00fasenos\u0165ami gener\u00e1ci\u00ed. Sk\u00f4r ne\u017e sa dostaneme k priamym slov\u00e1m Ericha Mariu Remarqua, vyn\u00e1raj\u00fa sa v pam\u00e4ti ver\u0161e Omara Chajj\u00e1ma, jemn\u00e9 ako p\u00fa\u0161tny vietor, no bolestne presn\u00e9:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNetr\u00e1p sa nad t\u00fdm, \u010do nem\u00e1\u0161, ale nau\u010d sa by\u0165 slobodn\u00fdm od toho, \u010do vlastn\u00ed\u0161.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tieto slov\u00e1 a\u017e prekvapivo presne rezonuj\u00fa s modern\u00fdm \u017eivotom, kde maj\u00fa mnoh\u00ed pocit, \u017ee im neust\u00e1le nie\u010do ch\u00fdba. Akoby \u0161\u0165astie boli nekone\u010dn\u00e9 preteky za nie\u010d\u00edm, \u010do zost\u00e1va nav\u017edy mimo dosahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na\u0161a gener\u00e1cia v\u0161ak nebola vychov\u00e1van\u00e1 k filozofii prijatia. V\u0161tepovali n\u00e1m nie\u010do in\u00e9: \u201eSna\u017e sa,\u201c \u201eDosahuj,\u201c \u201eBu\u010f lep\u0161\u00ed ako ostatn\u00ed.\u201c Vn\u00fatorn\u00e1 s\u00fa\u0165a\u017eivos\u0165 sa stala normou \u2013 s\u00fa\u0165a\u017e\u00edme s okol\u00edm aj sami so sebou. V\u0161etko sa meria v\u00fdsledkami a splnen\u00fdmi \u00falohami. V tomto syst\u00e9me mu\u017esk\u00e9 myslenie \u010dasto nadob\u00fada pragmatick\u00fd odtie\u0148: m\u00e1m dom, m\u00e1m rodinu, m\u00e1m man\u017eelku \u2013 \u00faloha je splnen\u00e1, m\u00f4\u017eem po\u013eavi\u0165. Alebo naopak \u2013 h\u013eada\u0165 nov\u00e9 podnety, ak dom\u00e1ce pohodlie prestane prin\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 em\u00f3cie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Pasca povinnosti a il\u00fazia dostupnosti<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V na\u0161ej kult\u00fare existuje slovo, ktor\u00e9 vysvet\u013euje mnoh\u00e9 \u2013 \u201epovinnos\u0165\u201c. Je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9, mas\u00edvne a \u010dasto nespr\u00e1vne pochopen\u00e9. Niekto ho nesie s d\u00f4stojnos\u0165ou, in\u00fd ako nepohodln\u00e9 bremeno, ktor\u00e9 mu je \u013e\u00fato zahodi\u0165, ale u\u017e nem\u00e1 silu ho nies\u0165. Existuj\u00fa mu\u017ei, ktor\u00ed rozumej\u00fa zodpovednosti, no sta\u010d\u00ed mal\u00e9 poku\u0161enie \u201eobnovi\u0165 svoj \u017eivot\u201c a stabiln\u00fd vz\u0165ah je \u013eahko nahraden\u00fd nov\u00fdm, zdanlivo jasnej\u0161\u00edm a \u013eah\u0161\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mnoh\u00ed mu\u017ei s\u00fa presved\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee \u017eeny s\u00fa v menej v\u00fdhodnej poz\u00edcii: maj\u00fa menej pr\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed a viac povinnost\u00ed. Ka\u017edodenn\u00fd \u017eivot \u017eeny sa \u010dasto men\u00ed na nekone\u010dn\u00fd marat\u00f3n: pr\u00e1ca, deti, kr\u00fa\u017eky, varenie, upratovanie a starostlivos\u0165 o bl\u00edzkych. V takomto tempe je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 n\u00e1js\u0165 \u010das na radik\u00e1lne zmeny. Pr\u00e1ve to vytv\u00e1ra u mu\u017eov nebezpe\u010dn\u00fa il\u00faziu: ak je pre \u0148u \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 od\u00eds\u0165, znamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee si ju nemus\u00edm v\u00e1\u017ei\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Pre\u010do sa hodnota st\u00e1va nevidite\u013enou?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Probl\u00e9my m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd, no ich rozsah sa l\u00ed\u0161i. Vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ine rod\u00edn le\u017e\u00ed hlavn\u00e1 z\u00e1\u0165a\u017e na \u017eene, zatia\u013e \u010do od mu\u017ea sa vy\u017eaduje minimum. Potom vznik\u00e1 ve\u010dn\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka: Pre\u010do si nev\u00e1\u017eime t\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed s\u00fa pri n\u00e1s? T\u00fdch, ktor\u00ed zost\u00e1vaj\u00fa vern\u00ed a dr\u017eia na svojich pleciach cel\u00fd chod dom\u00e1cnosti? Menia sa \u010dasy, m\u00f3da aj hudba, no t\u00e1to situ\u00e1cia zost\u00e1va takmer nemenn\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><thead><tr><td><strong>Autor<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>My\u0161lienka o hodnote<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Hlavn\u00fd odkaz<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td><strong>Lev Tolstoj<\/strong><\/td><td>\u201eNem\u00f4\u017eem ma\u0165 v\u0161etko, \u010do chcem. Ale milujem to, \u010do m\u00e1m.\u201c<\/td><td>V\u00e1\u017e si pr\u00edtomnos\u0165.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Konfucius<\/strong><\/td><td>\u201eKto si nev\u00e1\u017ei m\u00e1lo, strat\u00ed aj ve\u013ek\u00e9.\u201c<\/td><td>Pokora vo vz\u0165ahu.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>E. M. Remarque<\/strong><\/td><td>\u201eTo, \u010do nem\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 ma\u0165, sa zd\u00e1 v\u017edy lep\u0161ie.\u201c<\/td><td>\u010clovek \u017eije v il\u00fazii.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pre\u010do sa na t\u00fato jednoduch\u00fa pravdu tak \u010dasto zab\u00fada? Pre\u010do \u010dlovek znova a znova pozer\u00e1 na \u201ecudzie\u201c, pova\u017euj\u00fac ho za lep\u0161ie ne\u017e to vlastn\u00e9? Mo\u017eno je to t\u00fdm, \u017ee \u017eenu vn\u00edmame ako \u201edobyt\u00e9 \u00fazemie\u201c \u2013 ak je u\u017e raz pri n\u00e1s, \u00fasilie kon\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Remarqueova defin\u00edcia \u013eudskej hl\u00faposti<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tu sa dost\u00e1vame k spom\u00ednan\u00e9mu Remarqueovi, ktor\u00e9ho slov\u00e1 tn\u00fa do \u017eiv\u00e9ho:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTo, \u010do nem\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 dosta\u0165, sa ti v\u017edy zd\u00e1 lep\u0161ie ne\u017e to, \u010do m\u00e1\u0161. V tom spo\u010d\u00edva romantika aj hl\u00fapos\u0165 \u013eudsk\u00e9ho \u017eivota.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00e1to my\u0161lienka je ako \u00fader, ktor\u00e9mu sa d\u00e1 len \u0165a\u017eko vyhn\u00fa\u0165. Podobn\u00e9 pr\u00edslovia n\u00e1jdeme v ka\u017edej kult\u00fare: Japonci hovoria, \u017ee uniknut\u00e1 ryba sa zd\u00e1 v\u017edy najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia, a u n\u00e1s na Slovensku vieme, \u017ee susedova tr\u00e1va je v\u017edy zelen\u0161ia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zmysel je rovnak\u00fd: \u010dlovek m\u00e1 sklon vidie\u0165 il\u00faziu, nie realitu. T\u00fa\u017ei po nedosiahnute\u013enom a zab\u00fada na to, \u010do je u\u017e d\u00e1vno ved\u013ea neho \u2013 \u017eiv\u00e9 a skuto\u010dn\u00e9. Pritom \u017eeny v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou nepotrebuj\u00fa teatr\u00e1lne gest\u00e1 ani b\u00farliv\u00e9 v\u00e1\u0161ne. To, na \u010dom skuto\u010dne z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, s\u00fa prost\u00e9 veci: pozornos\u0165, re\u0161pekt, v\u010fa\u010dnos\u0165 a \u00fa\u010das\u0165 na spolo\u010dnom \u017eivote.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Kedy prich\u00e1dza neskor\u00e9 vytriezvenie<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zdalo by sa, \u017ee prejavi\u0165 v\u010faku nie je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. No pre mnoh\u00fdch je to zlo\u017eitej\u0161ie, ne\u017e sa zd\u00e1. Probl\u00e9m nast\u00e1va v momente, ke\u010f sa vernos\u0165 za\u010dne bra\u0165 ako samozrejmos\u0165 a l\u00e1ska ako povinnos\u0165, ktor\u00e1 si nevy\u017eaduje \u017eiadnu sp\u00e4tn\u00fa v\u00e4zbu. Mnoh\u00ed mu\u017ei si uvedomia hodnotu toho, \u010do mali, a\u017e vtedy, ke\u010f o to definit\u00edvne pr\u00eddu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u017divot v neust\u00e1lom h\u013eadan\u00ed \u201enie\u010doho lep\u0161ieho\u201c vedie k pr\u00e1zdnote. Ak \u010dlovek neust\u00e1le porovn\u00e1va svoju partnerku s fikt\u00edvnym ide\u00e1lom alebo nov\u00fdmi zn\u00e1mos\u0165ami, str\u00e1ca schopnos\u0165 vidie\u0165 h\u013abku a oddanos\u0165, ktor\u00fa mu budovan\u00fd vz\u0165ah pon\u00faka. Skuto\u010dn\u00e1 zrelos\u0165 mu\u017ea spo\u010d\u00edva v schopnosti rozpozna\u0165 poklad v tom, \u010do u\u017e vlastn\u00ed, a nenecha\u0165 sa zaslepi\u0165 prchav\u00fdmi dojmami<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>M\u00fadros\u0165 na z\u00e1ver: Neztra\u0165te to ve\u013ek\u00e9<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na z\u00e1ver sa hod\u00ed spomen\u00fa\u0165 Konfucia: \u201eKto si nev\u00e1\u017ei m\u00e1lo, ten str\u00e1ca aj ve\u013ek\u00e9.\u201c Je to m\u00fadros\u0165 zrozumite\u013en\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00e9mu, no nie v\u017edy aplikovan\u00e1 v praxi. Najm\u00e4 t\u00fdmi, ktor\u00ed vn\u00edmaj\u00fa l\u00e1sku ako n\u00e1rok a vernos\u0165 ako nie\u010do, \u010do netreba odme\u0148ova\u0165 ani slovom \u201e\u010fakujem\u201c. Skuto\u010dn\u00e9 \u0161\u0165astie sa neskr\u00fdva v tom, \u010do e\u0161te nem\u00e1me, ale v schopnosti milova\u0165 a chr\u00e1ni\u0165 to, \u010do je pri n\u00e1s teraz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Zaujala v\u00e1s t\u00e1to \u00favaha o vz\u0165ahoch a mu\u017eskej povahe? Budeme ve\u013emi radi, ak sa prihl\u00e1site na odber na\u0161ej str\u00e1nky, d\u00e1te n\u00e1m \u201elike\u201c a budete tento \u010dl\u00e1nok zdie\u013ea\u0165 so svojimi priate\u013emi. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 zdie\u013eanie pom\u00e1ha \u0161\u00edri\u0165 tieto d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 my\u0161lienky \u010falej. M\u00e1te aj vy sk\u00fasenos\u0165 s t\u00fdm, \u017ee si niekto nev\u00e1\u017eil va\u0161u vernos\u0165, k\u00fdm nebolo neskoro? Pode\u013ete sa s nami o v\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1zor v koment\u00e1roch!<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pre\u010do mu\u017ei neocenia to, \u010do maj\u00fa: Remarqueova krut\u00e1 pravda o \u013eudsk\u00fdch il\u00fazi\u00e1ch Niekedy sa rozhovory o rodine neza\u010d\u00ednaj\u00fa be\u017en\u00fdmi s\u0165a\u017enos\u0165ami na dom\u00e1cnos\u0165, ale hlbok\u00fdmi \u00favahami \u2013 akoby sme listovali v [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4155,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recept"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4154","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4154"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4154\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4156,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4154\/revisions\/4156"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4155"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}