{"id":204,"date":"2025-12-11T08:10:31","date_gmt":"2025-12-11T08:10:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/?p=204"},"modified":"2025-12-11T08:10:31","modified_gmt":"2025-12-11T08:10:31","slug":"bola-som-milenkou-svojho-manzela-a-nic-nelutujem-svedectvo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/?p=204","title":{"rendered":"Bola som milenkou svojho man\u017eela (a ni\u010d ne\u013eutujem) \u2013 Svedectvo"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160tyri roky bola Catherine* (40) milenkou Pierra* (50).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00e1\u0161niv\u00fd, b\u00farliv\u00fd vz\u0165ah, pln\u00fd zr\u00e1d&#8230; ale tak\u00fd, ktor\u00fd je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 zn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 ka\u017ed\u00fd de\u0148.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rozpr\u00e1va n\u00e1m svoj pr\u00edbeh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u0161etko sa to za\u010dalo mojou z\u00e1hradou. S b\u00fdval\u00fdm man\u017eelom sme si k\u00fapili mal\u00fd radov\u00fd dom s kr\u00e1snou z\u00e1hradou, ktor\u00fa som chcela vyzdobi\u0165\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Samozrejme, i\u0161la som sa poradi\u0165 s najbli\u017e\u0161\u00edm z\u00e1hradn\u00edkom, Pierrom. Pri\u0161iel ku mne domov, pozrel sa na m\u00f4j z\u00e1hon a dali sme si k\u00e1vu. Ni\u010d viac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O dva roky nesk\u00f4r sa udiala dramatick\u00e1 zvrat: som\u00a0 op\u00e4\u0165\u00a0<strong>slobodn\u00e1<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0. Pre m\u0148a je to ako z\u00e1van \u010derstv\u00e9ho vzduchu: c\u00edtim sa slobodn\u00e1! M\u00e1m v hlave tis\u00edc projektov\u2026 a m\u00e1m v \u00famysle \u00faplne premeni\u0165 svoj domov. Znova som i\u0161la za Pierrom: tentoraz sa v\u0161etko uk\u00e1zalo inak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePovedal som ti u\u017e niekedy, ak\u00e1 si o\u010daruj\u00faca?\u201c sp\u00fdtal sa, ke\u010f prech\u00e1dzal uli\u010dkami. Videli sme sa len tri alebo \u0161tyrikr\u00e1t za dva roky, v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou pri viano\u010dn\u00fdch strom\u010dekoch: samozrejme, bola som prekvapen\u00e1. Prekvapen\u00e1, ale v dobrom slova zmysle\u2026 O mesiac nesk\u00f4r som znova i\u0161la do z\u00e1hradn\u00e9ho centra. Pierre tam bol: \u201ePre\u010do \u0165a chcem pobozka\u0165 v\u017edy, ke\u010f \u0165a vid\u00edm?\u201c vyh\u0155klo z neho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/actu.femmeactuelle.fr\/imgre\/fit\/http.3A.2F.2Fprd2-bone-image.2Es3-website-eu-west-1.2Eamazonaws.2Ecom.2FFAC.2Fvar.2Ffemmeactuelle.2Fstorage.2Fimages.2Fmedia.2Fimages.2Fadultere1.2F14267703-1-fre-FR.2Fadultere1.2Egif\/320x241\/quality\/80\/thumbnail.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nebola som hl\u00fapa: v\u0161imla som si, \u017ee m\u00e1 na sebe\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<strong>snubn\u00fd prste\u0148<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0. \u201e\u00c1no&#8230; ale je tu e\u0161te toto,\u201c odpovedala som. \u201eViem,\u201c odpovedal hanblivo. Bola som zm\u00e4ten\u00e1: medzi nami nie\u010do bolo, nejak\u00e9 spojenie, siln\u00e1 pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivos\u0165. C\u00edtila som sa pri\u0165ahovan\u00e1&#8230; ale bol tam ten snubn\u00fd prste\u0148! Hovorila som o tom so svojou terapeutkou: \u201eTo je jeho probl\u00e9m, nie tvoj,\u201c odpovedala stroho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"1t7ea\"><strong>&#8220;Chcem sa znova zamilova\u0165 ako t\u00edned\u017eer.&#8221;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vymenili sme si \u010d\u00edsla v jeho obchode; v ten ist\u00fd de\u0148 mi zavolal a dohodli sme si stretnutie\u2026 N\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah bol v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00fd, ale dobre organizovan\u00fd: stret\u00e1vali sme sa raz t\u00fd\u017edenne, od 14:00 do 15:00, v\u017edy u m\u0148a doma. Dbal som na to, aby sa to moje deti nedozvedeli, a on sa postaral o to, aby sa to nedozvedela jeho \u017eena.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nec\u00edtil som sa vo\u010di nej vinn\u00fd: nebol to m\u00f4j probl\u00e9m, \u017ee ju jej man\u017eel podv\u00e1dzal. Samozrejme, mala podozrenie: Pierra prichytili na za\u010diatku n\u00e1\u0161ho vz\u0165ahu, napriek v\u0161etk\u00fdm opatreniam. \u017dena v\u017edy c\u00edti tieto veci. Najm\u00e4 preto, \u017ee mal predo mnou milenku&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bol som na to varovan\u00fd: nemal absol\u00fatne v \u00famysle opusti\u0165 svoju man\u017eelku, s ktorou mal aj profesion\u00e1lny vz\u0165ah. Povedal mi, \u017ee ju podv\u00e1dza, preto\u017ee mal pocit, \u017ee sa do m\u0148a znova zamiloval, ako t\u00edned\u017eer. Bolo mi to jedno: bol som zamilovan\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/actu.femmeactuelle.fr\/imgre\/fit\/http.3A.2F.2Fprd2-bone-image.2Es3-website-eu-west-1.2Eamazonaws.2Ecom.2FFAC.2Fvar.2Ffemmeactuelle.2Fstorage.2Fimages.2Fmedia.2Fimages.2Fadultere2.2F14267706-1-fre-FR.2Fadultere2.2Egif\/500x376\/quality\/80\/thumbnail.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"3lsn0\"><strong>&#8220;Nie som premenn\u00e1, ktor\u00fa mo\u017eno upravi\u0165!&#8221;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00e1\u0161 rom\u00e1nik trval osem mesiacov. C\u00edtila som sa ako dva dieliky sklada\u010dky,\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<strong>spriaznen\u00e9 du\u0161e<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0. Ale nie\u010do nebolo v poriadku: V\u017edy som bola \u201emilenka\u201c. Ve\u013emi negat\u00edvna asoci\u00e1cia: Mala som pocit, \u017ee nem\u00e1m \u017eiadnu seba\u00factu. \u010cas\u0165 m\u0148a sa hanbila, \u017ee nezdie\u013ea moje t\u00fa\u017eby. Uprednostnila by som \u201eofici\u00e1lny\u201c vz\u0165ah a to bolo v\u0161etko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po \u00f4smich mesiacoch som sa rozplakala. \u201eNie som jednorazov\u00fd produkt!\u201c odsekla som. Rozi\u0161li sme sa. Bolo to neuverite\u013ene bolestiv\u00e9: ch\u00fdbal mi ako s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 seba&#8230; Bolo to ako droga. O \u0161es\u0165 mesiacov nesk\u00f4r mi zavolal: Znova som sa na\u0148ho nechala zavesi\u0165, len \u010do som po\u010dula\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<strong>jeho hlas<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nemohla som si pom\u00f4c\u0165: bola to \u010dist\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161e\u0148. Stret\u00e1vali sme sa dvakr\u00e1t t\u00fd\u017edenne, niekedy na dve hodiny. Niekedy som si pomyslela: \u201eAko m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 prija\u0165 tak\u00fdto vz\u0165ah? Ako m\u00f4\u017ee\u0161 prija\u0165, \u017ee ste len\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<strong>af\u00e9ra<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0?\u201c Ale moje srdce v\u017edy zv\u00ed\u0165azilo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rozi\u0161li sme sa (a dali sme sa znova dokopy) trikr\u00e1t za \u0161tyri roky. Bola som bez neho neuverite\u013ene ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00e1; s n\u00edm som sa c\u00edtila ako my\u0161 chyten\u00e1 v ma\u010dacej labke. Vz\u0165ah, ktor\u00fd ma pomaly pohltil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"b0ong\"><strong>&#8220;Nie som naozaj zamilovan\u00fd\/\u00e1.&#8221;<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u017e k\u00fdm som jedn\u00e9ho d\u0148a neotvoril o\u010di. Pr\u00e1ve sme sa rozi\u0161li a on mi povedal: \u201eKa\u017edop\u00e1dne, nie som naozaj zamilovan\u00fd. Zbli\u017eujem sa so svojou \u017eenou. Nikdy by som ti nemohol da\u0165 \u017eivot, ak\u00fd si \u017eel\u00e1\u0161.\u201c Bol to skuto\u010dn\u00fd \u0161ok. Zrazu som uvidel jeho prav\u00fa tv\u00e1r: straten\u00e9ho, \u200b\u200bmanipulat\u00edvneho mu\u017ea, ktor\u00fd si chcel da\u0165 kol\u00e1\u010d a z\u00e1rove\u0148 ho zjes\u0165.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0160tyri roky bola Catherine* (40) milenkou Pierra* (50). V\u00e1\u0161niv\u00fd, b\u00farliv\u00fd vz\u0165ah, pln\u00fd zr\u00e1d&#8230; ale tak\u00fd, ktor\u00fd je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 zn\u00e1\u0161a\u0165 ka\u017ed\u00fd de\u0148. Rozpr\u00e1va n\u00e1m svoj pr\u00edbeh. V\u0161etko sa to za\u010dalo mojou [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":205,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-204","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recept"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/204","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=204"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/204\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":206,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/204\/revisions\/206"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/205"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=204"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=204"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=204"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}