\u017divot s partnerom, ktor\u00fd je citovo lakom\u00fd a vyh\u00fdba sa komplimentom, l\u00e1skav\u00fdm gest\u00e1m a ne\u017en\u00fdm poh\u013eadom, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 \u0165a\u017ek\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Odkia\u013e toto spr\u00e1vanie poch\u00e1dza a ako sa s n\u00edm m\u00f4\u017eeme vysporiada\u0165? Koterapeut pon\u00faka nieko\u013eko odpoved\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V jeho pr\u00edpade s\u00fa komplimenty, jemn\u00e9 gest\u00e1 a pohladenia vz\u00e1cnos\u0165ou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nedr\u017e\u00ed \u0165a za ruku na ulici, nepovie, \u017ee \u0165a miluje, nikdy \u0165a neprekvap\u00ed…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Toto spr\u00e1vanie, okrem toho, \u017ee je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 ho pochopi\u0165, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 aj v\u00e1\u017enym zdrojom utrpenia. Ako by ste teda mali v takejto situ\u00e1cii reagova\u0165? Je rozchod nevyhnutn\u00fd? Diskutujeme o tom s Camille Roche, psychologi\u010dkou a rodinnou terapeutkou, autorkou knihy * \u00catre un \u00e9panoui*<\/em> (ed. Duno).<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201eNiekto, kto neprejavuje zn\u00e1mky n\u00e1klonnosti, je s\u00e1m o sebe probl\u00e9m,\u201c<\/em> uv\u00e1dza Camille Rocher v \u00favode. Najprv si v\u0161ak mus\u00edme definova\u0165, \u010do rozumieme pod prejavmi n\u00e1klonnosti, preto\u017ee m\u00f4\u017eu ma\u0165 mnoho r\u00f4znych foriem. \u201ePre v\u00e4\u010d\u0161inu z n\u00e1s to bude fyzick\u00fd, telesn\u00fd kontakt. Pre in\u00fdch to bude ove\u013ea jemnej\u0161ie. N\u00e1klonnos\u0165 sa prejav\u00ed poh\u013eadmi, skutkami l\u00e1skavosti, starostlivos\u0165ou, z\u00e1ujmom o n\u00e1s a mal\u00fdmi slovami, nie nevyhnutne fyzick\u00fdmi. Tieto prejavy n\u00e1klonnosti s\u00fa ur\u010dite vzdialenej\u0161ie, ale st\u00e1le s\u00fa to znaky. Nedostatok prejavov sa deje a nie je to nevyhnutne negat\u00edvny znak, ak druh\u00e1 osoba prejavuje svoju l\u00e1sku in\u00fdmi sp\u00f4sobmi,\u201c<\/em> vysvet\u013euje rodinn\u00e1 terapeutka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201eSamozrejme, ke\u010f n\u00e1m partner neprejavuje fyzick\u00fa n\u00e1klonnos\u0165, je to \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 a nezdrav\u00e9, preto\u017ee v na\u0161om poh\u013eade a poznan\u00ed druhej osoby, v spojen\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 s \u0148ou vytv\u00e1rame, potrebujeme tento fyzick\u00fd kontakt, aby sme sa uistili, \u017ee sa koncep\u010dne milujeme<\/em>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0,\u201c prip\u00fa\u0161\u0165a \u0161pecialistka. A nie bezd\u00f4vodne: telo potrebuje fyzick\u00fa n\u00e1klonnos\u0165, a preto\u00a0\u00a0 je\u00a0sexualita\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0vo vz\u0165ahu tak\u00e1 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 \u2013 nie na uspokojenie sexu\u00e1lnej potreby, ale na fyzick\u00fd kontakt, ktor\u00fd pom\u00e1ha posilni\u0165 l\u00e1sku. Nie je podstata l\u00e1sky vyjadren\u00e1 v pohladeniach,\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0komplimentoch\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0a objatiach? V tejto s\u00favislosti m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 budovanie trval\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9, ba a\u017e nemo\u017en\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ak je n\u00e1\u0161 partner skuto\u010dne fyzicky zablokovan\u00fd a m\u00e1 ve\u013ek\u00e9 \u0165a\u017ekosti s vyjadrovan\u00edm pocitov, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e9 poradi\u0165 sa s psychol\u00f3gom a\/alebo\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0rodinn\u00fdm terapeutom\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0. Cie\u013e?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u201ePochopi\u0165, pre\u010do druh\u00e1 osoba neprejavuje n\u00e1klonnos\u0165, preto\u017ee ve\u013emi \u010dasto na to existuje vysvetlenie; n\u00e1\u0161 partner nem\u00f4\u017ee jednoducho poveda\u0165, \u017ee nie je citliv\u00fd. Cie\u013eom terapie je preh\u013abi\u0165 na\u0161e ch\u00e1panie toho, \u010do v \u0148om fyzick\u00fd dotyk odr\u00e1\u017ea: s\u00favis\u00ed tento strach s jeho minulos\u0165ou? So sexu\u00e1lnym n\u00e1sil\u00edm vo vlastnej rodine? So strachom\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0zo z\u00e1v\u00e4zkov\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0?\u201c<\/em>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0p\u00fdta sa Camille Roche. Identifik\u00e1cia \u0165a\u017ekost\u00ed druhej osoby s vyjadrovan\u00edm pocitov umo\u017en\u00ed, aby sa vz\u0165ah rozv\u00edjal pokojnej\u0161ie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u017divot s partnerom, ktor\u00fd je citovo lakom\u00fd a vyh\u00fdba sa komplimentom, l\u00e1skav\u00fdm gest\u00e1m a ne\u017en\u00fdm poh\u013eadom, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 \u0165a\u017ek\u00fd. Odkia\u013e toto spr\u00e1vanie poch\u00e1dza a ako sa s n\u00edm m\u00f4\u017eeme vysporiada\u0165? 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Vyjadrenie citov, nevyhnutn\u00e9 pre l\u00e1sku<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Pochopenie p\u00f4vodu tohto spr\u00e1vania<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n