Hoci sa o cudzolo\u017estve \u010dasto diskutuje z poh\u013eadu mu\u017esk\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vania, \u010doraz viac odborn\u00fdch anal\u00fdz a psychologick\u00fdch v\u00fdskumov odha\u013euje, \u017ee aj \u017eeny maj\u00fa svoje vlastn\u00e9 d\u00f4vody \u2013 hlboko emocion\u00e1lne a zlo\u017eit\u00e9. Nevera u \u017eien je zriedka v\u00fdsledkom chv\u00ed\u013ekov\u00e9ho rozmaru alebo prchavej t\u00fa\u017eby po pozornosti. Za t\u00fdmto \u010dinom sa skr\u00fdva nie\u010do ove\u013ea hlb\u0161ie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
U \u017eien cudzolo\u017estvo zvy\u010dajne nie je motivovan\u00e9 fyzickou pr\u00ed\u0165a\u017elivos\u0165ou alebo dobrodru\u017estvom. Namiesto toho je naj\u010dastej\u0161ie v\u00fdsledkom emocion\u00e1lnej nespokojnosti, ktor\u00e1 sa hromadila v priebehu rokov. Psychol\u00f3govia poukazuj\u00fa na jeden k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00fd faktor ako naj\u010dastej\u0161iu pr\u00ed\u010dinu \u2013 emocion\u00e1lnu pr\u00e1zdnotu<\/strong> .<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mnoho \u017eien podv\u00e1dza, preto\u017ee sa c\u00edtia osamelo, aj ke\u010f s\u00fa technicky \u201evo vz\u0165ahu\u201c. Ke\u010f emocion\u00e1lne puto zmizne, ke\u010f ch\u00fdba ne\u017en\u00fd dotyk, ch\u00e1pav\u00e9 rozhovory a pocity bl\u00edzkosti \u2013 v \u017eene sa vytvor\u00ed pr\u00e1zdno, ktor\u00e9 jej partner u\u017e nevypln\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Najprv sa sna\u017e\u00ed n\u00e1js\u0165 v\u00fdhovorky \u2013 \u201eje unaven\u00fd\u201c, \u201em\u00e1 stresuj\u00facu pr\u00e1cu\u201c, \u201eprejde to\u201c. Ale \u010dasom, ak sa ni\u010d nezmen\u00ed, tento pocit prerastie do hlbokej osamelosti. \u010casto sa st\u00e1va, \u017ee \u017eeny sa c\u00edtia najosamelej\u0161ie v dlh\u00fdch, stabiln\u00fdch vz\u0165ahoch. Zdie\u013eaj\u00fa rovnak\u00fd priestor, rovnak\u00fa rutinu, ale nie rovnak\u00e9 em\u00f3cie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ke\u010f sa \u017eena prestane c\u00edti\u0165 cenen\u00e1 \u2013 vn\u00edman\u00e1, milovan\u00e1 a oce\u0148ovan\u00e1 \u2013 jej vn\u00edmanie samej seba oslabuje. Namiesto partnera, ktor\u00fd sa na \u0148u kedysi pozeral s obdivom, je teraz obklopen\u00e1 tichom a \u013eahostajnos\u0165ou. V tej chv\u00edli m\u00f4\u017ee niekto in\u00fd prebudi\u0165 to, \u010do v nej dlho drieme \u2013 pocit, \u017ee je st\u00e1le v\u00fdnimo\u010dn\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n M\u00f4\u017ee to by\u0165 zn\u00e1my, kolega alebo n\u00e1hodn\u00fd cudzinec \u2013 ale sta\u010d\u00ed jeden \u00faprimn\u00fd kompliment, jeden poh\u013ead, ktor\u00fd hovor\u00ed \u201eVid\u00edm \u0165a\u201c, aby sa spustila lav\u00edna em\u00f3ci\u00ed. Nie z t\u00fa\u017eby podv\u00e1dza\u0165, ale z potreby c\u00edti\u0165 sa op\u00e4\u0165 na\u017eive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina \u017eien, ktor\u00e9 podv\u00e1dzaj\u00fa, nie je chladn\u00fdch ani bezcitn\u00fdch. Predt\u00fdm sa sna\u017eili vz\u0165ah zachr\u00e1ni\u0165, porozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa, da\u0165 najavo… ale ke\u010f sa ni\u010d nezmen\u00ed, em\u00f3cie ut\u00edchnu. Nevera prich\u00e1dza a\u017e po dlhom vn\u00fatornom boji. A potom u\u017e \u010dasto niet cesty sp\u00e4\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Starostliv\u00fd partner dok\u00e1\u017ee rozpozna\u0165, kedy je \u017eena emocion\u00e1lne odmeran\u00e1. Nedostatok z\u00e1ujmu o konverz\u00e1ciu, fyzick\u00fa intimitu, nov\u00e9 spr\u00e1vanie, t\u00fa\u017eba tr\u00e1vi\u0165 viac \u010dasu mimo domova \u2013 to s\u00fa jasn\u00e9 ukazovatele. V mnoh\u00fdch pr\u00edpadoch u\u017e \u201eodi\u0161la\u201c, len e\u0161te fyzicky neopustila vz\u0165ah.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ke\u010f mu\u017e zist\u00ed, \u017ee ho partnerka podviedla, \u010dasto sa s\u00fastred\u00ed na \u201etoho druh\u00e9ho\u201c. Pravdou v\u0161ak je, \u017ee mu\u017e nie je pr\u00ed\u010dinou, ale sympt\u00f3mom. Ten druh\u00fd mu\u017e \u017eenu neukradol \u2013 ona u\u017e bola straten\u00e1 vo vz\u0165ahu, ktor\u00fd ju citovo vy\u010derpal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ke\u010f \u017eena raz poc\u00edti, ak\u00e9 to je by\u0165 milovan\u00e1, \u017eiadan\u00e1 a emocion\u00e1lne naplnen\u00e1, \u0165a\u017eko sa vracia k star\u00e9mu sp\u00f4sobu \u017eivota. Nie preto, \u017ee by bola tvrdohlav\u00e1, ale preto, \u017ee vie, \u010do si zasl\u00fa\u017ei. Nau\u010dila sa, \u017ee nemus\u00ed by\u0165 nie\u010d\u00edm tie\u0148om a u\u017e viac neakceptuje, aby ju niekto ignoroval a uml\u010doval.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ak si chcete \u017eenu udr\u017ea\u0165, neprest\u00e1vajte sa sna\u017ei\u0165, ke\u010f ste si ju z\u00edskali. Emocion\u00e1lna pozornos\u0165, z\u00e1ujem o jej svet, \u00faprimn\u00e9 komplimenty a mal\u00e9, ka\u017edodenn\u00e9 prejavy l\u00e1sky \u2013 to s\u00fa z\u00e1klady stabiln\u00e9ho vz\u0165ahu. \u017dena, ktor\u00e1 sa c\u00edti milovan\u00e1, re\u0161pektovan\u00e1 a viden\u00e1, to nebude musie\u0165 h\u013eada\u0165 inde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u017deny nepodv\u00e1dzaj\u00fa preto, \u017ee chc\u00fa viac, ale preto, \u017ee u\u017e dlho maj\u00fa pocit, \u017ee ni\u010d nemaj\u00fa. Ke\u010f je srdce tich\u00e9 a em\u00f3cie s\u00fa pre\u010d, aj t\u00e1 najmen\u0161ia pozornos\u0165 zvonku m\u00f4\u017ee p\u00f4sobi\u0165 ako z\u00e1chrana. A preto, ke\u010f \u017eena od\u00edde, je to \u010dasto znamenie, \u017ee tam u\u017e d\u00e1vno prestala by\u0165 \u2013 emocion\u00e1lne aj duchovne.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hoci sa o cudzolo\u017estve \u010dasto diskutuje z poh\u013eadu mu\u017esk\u00e9ho spr\u00e1vania, \u010doraz viac odborn\u00fdch anal\u00fdz a psychologick\u00fdch v\u00fdskumov odha\u013euje, \u017ee aj \u017eeny maj\u00fa svoje vlastn\u00e9 d\u00f4vody \u2013 hlboko emocion\u00e1lne a zlo\u017eit\u00e9. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1503,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1502","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recept"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1502","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1502"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1502\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1504,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1502\/revisions\/1504"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1502"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1502"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1502"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Pocit osamelosti vo vz\u0165ahu<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Ke\u010f l\u00e1sku nahrad\u00ed ticho<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Podvod nie je pr\u00ed\u010dinou, ale d\u00f4sledkom<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Zn\u00e1mky toho, \u017ee \u017eena je emocion\u00e1lne vzdialen\u00e1<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Probl\u00e9m nie je v druhom mu\u017eovi \u2013 je to v absencii toho prv\u00e9ho.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Je \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 sa vr\u00e1ti\u0165 sp\u00e4\u0165.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\u010co sa z toho m\u00f4\u017eu mu\u017ei nau\u010di\u0165?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n