{"id":1363,"date":"2026-01-16T08:19:37","date_gmt":"2026-01-16T08:19:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/?p=1363"},"modified":"2026-01-16T08:19:37","modified_gmt":"2026-01-16T08:19:37","slug":"co-caka-zenu-ktora-na-sebe-setri-erich-maria-remarque-hovori-ze-je-to-jej-vlastna-chyba-ze-sa-k-nej-muz-takto-sprava","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/?p=1363","title":{"rendered":"\u010co \u010dak\u00e1 \u017eenu, ktor\u00e1 na sebe \u0161etr\u00ed: Erich Maria Remarque hovor\u00ed, \u017ee je to jej vlastn\u00e1 chyba, \u017ee sa k nej mu\u017e takto spr\u00e1va"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Skromnos\u0165, dobr\u00e9 mravy a dobr\u00e1 povaha s\u00fa vlastnosti, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa v rom\u00e1noch hlboko oslavovan\u00e9&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 s\u00fa tam aj odme\u0148ovan\u00e9, bez toho, aby prekra\u010dovali r\u00e1mec rom\u00e1nu. V \u017eivote je v\u0161etko trochu inak:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>pre ka\u017ed\u00e9ho bezoh\u013eadn\u00e9ho \u010dloveka s\u00fa skromnos\u0165 a dobr\u00e1 povaha vlastnosti, ktor\u00e9 sa daj\u00fa \u00faspe\u0161ne vyu\u017ei\u0165.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nie v\u0161etky dobr\u00e9 vlastnosti s\u00fa rovnako u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e9, niekedy s\u00fa de\u0161trukt\u00edvne:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>ke\u010f je ved\u013ea slu\u0161n\u00e9ho \u010dloveka ne\u010destn\u00fd, ktor\u00fd ich pou\u017e\u00edva, dobr\u00e9 vlastnosti sl\u00fa\u017eia v prospech zla.&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;Pam\u00e4tajte si to. Ka\u017ed\u00fd l\u00e1skav\u00fd, slu\u0161ne vychovan\u00fd a skromn\u00fd \u010dlovek by mal s \u013eu\u010fmi zaobch\u00e1dza\u0165 tak, aby sa nenechal uhryzn\u00fa\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale aby ste pochopili ostatn\u00fdch, mus\u00edte pochopi\u0165 sam\u00fdch seba a polo\u017ei\u0165 si ot\u00e1zku:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>pre\u010do \u017eeny tak \u010dasto \u0161etria na sebe a \u010do za to dostan\u00fa?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nikto sa v\u00e1m nepo\u010fakuje za to, \u017ee \u0161etr\u00edte na sebe. Samozrejme, nejde len o materi\u00e1lne bohatstvo:&nbsp;<strong>&nbsp;\u017eeny \u0161etria na svojom vo\u013enom \u010dase, tvrdo pracuj\u00fa pre v\u0161etk\u00fdch bl\u00edzkych na vlastn\u00fa \u0161kodu, potl\u00e1\u010daj\u00fa vlastn\u00e9 t\u00fa\u017eby kv\u00f4li in\u00fdm&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;\u2013 zachra\u0148uje im to \u017eivot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u013dudia si na to zvykn\u00fa: ke\u010f nie\u010do potrebuje\u0161, nie\u010do ti daj\u00fa.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Najprv \u0161etr\u00ed\u0161 na sebe a potom na tebe \u0161etria v\u0161etci.&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;\u017deny sa z tak\u00e9hoto \u017eivota unavia a sklam\u00fa. Ke\u010f sa \u017eena op\u00fdta osudu, pre\u010do chce tak\u00fdto \u017eivot, kde je v\u0161etko pre druh\u00fdch a ni\u010d pre \u0148u, zavl\u00e1dne okolo ticho. Nikto nebude \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, \u017ee si vy\u010derpan\u00fd a unaven\u00fd, \u017ee sa nem\u00e1\u0161 chu\u0165 radova\u0165, \u017ee si zl\u00fd:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>nikto ti nepo\u010fakuje za to, \u017ee si na sebe \u0161etril. Ani ty, ani t\u00ed okolo teba.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Zl\u00e9 n\u00e1vyky ved\u00fa k zl\u00e9mu \u017eivotu.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dobr\u00e9 n\u00e1vyky nie v\u017edy ved\u00fa k dobr\u00e9mu \u017eivotu, ale zl\u00e9 n\u00e1vyky v\u017edy ved\u00fa k zl\u00e9mu \u017eivotu. Zvyk \u0161etri\u0165 na sebe sa objavuje s pr\u00edchodom milovanej osoby:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>v\u00fdznamnej osoby alebo det\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;Za\u010d\u00edna sa preskupenie obrazu sveta: po\u010das cel\u00e9ho v\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota bola va\u0161a osobnos\u0165 vo va\u0161om vedom\u00ed dominantn\u00e1, teraz u\u017e nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Matka miluje svoje die\u0165a tak ve\u013emi, \u017ee je ochotn\u00e1 obetova\u0165 sa.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Zamilovan\u00e1 \u017eena je ochotn\u00e1 obetova\u0165 svoj \u010das, pohodlie a osobn\u00e9 ciele a amb\u00edcie, len aby mohla by\u0165 so svoj\u00edm milovan\u00fdm.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Deti si zvykn\u00fa na to, \u017ee sa za ne obetujete, a milovan\u00fd \u010dlovek si zvykne na obetu, ktor\u00fa za neho prinesiete \u2013 vy sami ste si ho zvykli na tento \u017eivot.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static--stil-kurir-rs.cdn.ampproject.org\/ii\/AW\/s\/static-stil.kurir.rs\/api\/v3\/images\/592\/1184\/180210?ts=2025-02-21T22:49:48\" alt=\"shutterstock-1771498547.jpg\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Foto: Shutterstock<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u010co sa stane, ak si \u017eena bude chcie\u0165 znovu z\u00edska\u0165 svoju osobnos\u0165, prestane \u0161etri\u0165 a zabudne na seba?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jej bl\u00edzki, pre ktor\u00fdch to v\u0161etko robila, sa bud\u00fa hneva\u0165. \u00c1no, \u00e1no, nikto nepovie:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>\u201eBolo to pre n\u00e1s \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 obdobie, \u010fakujeme!\u201c<\/strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;Teraz je rad na n\u00e1s, aby sme si pre teba \u0161etrili na sebe!\u201c Bud\u00fa sa hneva\u0165 len na teba: pre\u010do si im vzal to, \u010do sa v\u017edy pova\u017eovalo za samozrejmos\u0165?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak sa \u017eena boj\u00ed postavi\u0165 sa tomuto hnevu, uplyn\u00fa roky, desa\u0165ro\u010dia a potom si uvedom\u00ed: \u201e&nbsp;<strong>Kam sa podel m\u00f4j \u017eivot?\u201c&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;Ak nechce\u0161, aby tvoj \u017eivot preletel za z\u00e1stenou in\u00fdch \u017eivotov,&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>ne\u0161etri sa: ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlovek m\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo na \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd \u017eivot.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Neistota zni\u010dila mili\u00f3ny pr\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u010co je to v\u0161eobecne sebaz\u00e1chrana?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je to my\u0161lienka, \u017ee nie ste dostato\u010dne kompetentn\u00ed na poz\u00edciu, o ktorej sn\u00edvate, \u017ee existuj\u00fa ove\u013ea lep\u0161\u00ed a m\u00fadrej\u0161\u00ed \u013eudia. Ak sa neviete nau\u010di\u0165 tancova\u0165 alebo kresli\u0165, preto\u017ee ste to nikdy nerobili, a okolo v\u00e1s je to\u013eko talentovan\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, tak by ste s t\u00fdm ani nemali za\u010d\u00edna\u0165.&nbsp;<strong>&nbsp;\u017de in\u00e9 \u017eeny s\u00fa lep\u0161ie len preto, \u017ee maj\u00fa rovnej\u0161\u00ed nos a hustej\u0161ie vlasy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0160etrenie na sebe je zvyk, ktor\u00fd v\u00e1s n\u00fati uspokoji\u0165 sa s m\u00e1lom a usilova\u0165 sa o to najmenej. Zvyk, ktor\u00fd vytv\u00e1ra strach z odmietnutia:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>ak v\u00e1m nie\u010do nevy\u0161lo, ak v\u00e1s niekto odmietol, nie je to d\u00f4vod na zn\u00ed\u017eenie latky<\/strong>&nbsp;. Je to zvyk, ktor\u00fd v\u00e1m nedovol\u00ed sn\u00edva\u0165, nedovol\u00ed v\u00e1m \u00eds\u0165 k tomu, \u010do sa zd\u00e1 by\u0165 tak\u00e9 vzdialen\u00e9 a nemo\u017en\u00e9 \u2013 \u0161\u0165astiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne\u0161etrite \u010dasom, ktor\u00fd venujete sebe, ve\u010derom s \u00fa\u017easnou knihou v ruk\u00e1ch, svojim snom, mal\u00fdm veciam, ktor\u00e9 milujete cel\u00fdm srdcom:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>\u010das str\u00e1ven\u00fd s rados\u0165ou nemo\u017eno pova\u017eova\u0165 za prem\u00e1rnen\u00fd \u2013 doh\u00e1\u0148a straten\u00fa energiu.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Niekedy sa mi zd\u00e1, \u017ee \u013eudia bud\u00fa \u017ei\u0165 ve\u010dne: \u010dakaj\u00fa na pr\u00edle\u017eitosti z neba, porovn\u00e1vaj\u00fa sa s ostatn\u00fdmi, \u010dakaj\u00fa na spr\u00e1vnu chv\u00ed\u013eu a v\u0161etko odkladaj\u00fa na nesk\u00f4r, \u0161etria na sebe. Nezu\u017eujte si osobnos\u0165 a nikdy sa neporovn\u00e1vajte s ostatn\u00fdmi: keby som sa mal porovn\u00e1va\u0165 s in\u00fdmi spisovate\u013emi, za\u010dal by som \u0161etri\u0165 na papieri a atramente, ktor\u00fd pou\u017e\u00edvam, preto\u017ee by som sa c\u00edtil nehodn\u00fd.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Skromnos\u0165, dobr\u00e9 mravy a dobr\u00e1 povaha s\u00fa vlastnosti, ktor\u00e9 s\u00fa v rom\u00e1noch hlboko oslavovan\u00e9&nbsp;&nbsp;\u2013 s\u00fa tam aj odme\u0148ovan\u00e9, bez toho, aby prekra\u010dovali r\u00e1mec rom\u00e1nu. V \u017eivote je v\u0161etko trochu inak:&nbsp;&nbsp;pre [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1364,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recept"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1363"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1363\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1365,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1363\/revisions\/1365"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}