{"id":1354,"date":"2026-01-16T08:07:05","date_gmt":"2026-01-16T08:07:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/?p=1354"},"modified":"2026-01-16T08:07:05","modified_gmt":"2026-01-16T08:07:05","slug":"mam-40-a-ani-len-nepomyslim-na-svadbu-kazdy-si-moze-hovorit-co-chce-ale-po-rozvode-mam-vsetko-co-potrebujem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/?p=1354","title":{"rendered":"M\u00e1m 40 a ani len nepomysl\u00edm na svadbu: Ka\u017ed\u00fd si m\u00f4\u017ee hovori\u0165, \u010do chce, ale po rozvode m\u00e1m v\u0161etko, \u010do potrebujem."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ako sa bl\u00ed\u017eim k&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>\u0161tyridsiatke<\/strong>&nbsp;, vid\u00edm, ako sa \u010doraz viac mojich rovesn\u00edkov rozv\u00e1dza. Niektor\u00ed si na\u0161li mlad\u0161ie \u017eeny a rozhodli sa rozvies\u0165, zatia\u013e \u010do in\u00ed jednoducho odi\u0161li.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dnes je&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>nemo\u017en\u00e9 \u017ei\u0165 s emancipovanou \u017eenou<\/strong>&nbsp;!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00ed, ktor\u00ed sa nerozviedli, s\u00fa n\u00faten\u00ed&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>\u017eenu tolerova\u0165<\/strong>&nbsp;. D\u00f4vod je:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>\u010co na to povedia \u013eudia? Ako rozdeli\u0165 byt, auto, starostlivos\u0165 o deti at\u010f.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00fa t\u00ed vz\u00e1cni mu\u017ei, ktor\u00ed tvrdia, \u017ee s\u00fa&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>\u0161\u0165astne \u017eenat\u00ed<\/strong>&nbsp;. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee sa o tom presved\u010dili len sami. Nebudem p\u00edsa\u0165 o \u017eensk\u00fdch hovnoch. Budem len p\u00edsa\u0165 o \u201e\u0161\u0165astn\u00fdch mu\u017eoch\u201c. Po\u010duli ste u\u017e o nejakom \u0161\u0165astnom mu\u017eovi? Ja tie\u017e nie som!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zna\u010dka \u201e&nbsp;<strong>\u017eensk\u00e9 \u0161\u0165astie<\/strong>&nbsp;\u201c je v\u0161ade. Je to v\u0161etko t\u00e9mou rozhovorov.&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>Mu\u017esk\u00e9 \u0161\u0165astie je tabu<\/strong>&nbsp;. Po\u010duli ste u\u017e niekoho v poslednej dobe hovori\u0165 o mu\u017eoch a ich \u0161\u0165ast\u00ed? Stalo sa to politicky nekorektn\u00e9!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ak sa budeme venova\u0165 t\u00e9me \u201e&nbsp;<strong>mu\u017esk\u00e9ho \u0161\u0165astia<\/strong>&nbsp;\u201c, \u017eeny bud\u00fa protestova\u0165 a tvrdi\u0165, \u017ee mu\u017ei boli desa\u0165ro\u010dia rozmazn\u00e1van\u00ed, k\u00fdm sa \u017eeny nedok\u00e1zali zrovnopr\u00e1vni\u0165. Povedia v\u00e1m, \u017ee dlho bojovali za emancip\u00e1ciu, ale zd\u00e1 sa, \u017ee teraz je \u010das, aby sa mu\u017ei emancipovali sami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nenavrhujem, aby sme zaviedli de\u0148 pre&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>mu\u017eov&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;a bojovali za pr\u00e1va mu\u017eov. Chcem len, aby mu\u017ei a \u017eeny odpovedali na \u00faplne hl\u00fapu ot\u00e1zku:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201ePre\u010do potrebuje modern\u00fd mu\u017e po \u0161tyridsiatke, ktor\u00fd prekonal l\u00e1sku, man\u017eelku?\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ned\u00e1vno mi jeden zatrpknut\u00fd, ned\u00e1vno rozveden\u00fd mu\u017e polo\u017eil t\u00fa ist\u00fa ot\u00e1zku: \u201e\u00a0<strong>Pre\u010do by som sa mal znova \u017eeni\u0165<\/strong>\u00a0? Pre\u010do by som sa do toho p\u00fa\u0161\u0165al? Povedzme, \u017ee potrebujem niekoho na\u00a0\u00a0<strong>sex\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 n\u00e1jdem si sex na jednu noc. Povedzme, \u017ee potrebujem niekoho, kto mi bude\u00a0\u00a0<strong>vari\u0165 a upratova\u0165<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u2013 zaplat\u00edm nejakej \u017eene, ktor\u00e1 bude chodi\u0165 trikr\u00e1t t\u00fd\u017edenne. Tak pre\u010do by som sa mal zaplies\u0165 s nejakou hysterickou \u017eenou, ktor\u00e1 odo m\u0148a bude st\u00e1le nie\u010do vy\u017eadova\u0165, robi\u0165 sc\u00e9ny a o\u010dak\u00e1va\u0165 odo m\u0148a nemo\u017en\u00e9?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Povedal som mu:&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>Rodina? Deti? Rodinn\u00e9 hniezdo<\/strong>&nbsp;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eTo u\u017e neexistuje. Emancipovan\u00e1 \u017eena h\u013ead\u00e1&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>rovnos\u0165, niet tam \u017eiadneho tepla<\/strong>&nbsp;. V\u017edy je na vine mu\u017e. Ak m\u00e1te \u0161\u0165astie a m\u00e1te deti, \u017eena urob\u00ed v\u0161etko, \u010do je v jej sil\u00e1ch, aby&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>ich po\u0161tvala proti v\u00e1m<\/strong>&nbsp;. Niet u\u017e \u017eiadnej \u00facty. Otcovia a mu\u017ei u\u017e nie s\u00fa re\u0161pektovan\u00ed! A ke\u010f sa to stane, ke\u010f si uvedom\u00edte, \u017ee tam nie je \u017eiadne \u0161\u0165astie, \u010do v\u00e1m zost\u00e1va \u2013 od\u00eds\u0165!\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static-stil.kurir.rs\/api\/v3\/images\/592\/1184\/187965?ts=2025-02-21T22:35:47\" alt=\"shutterstock-1349734895.jpg\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ke\u010f \u017eena mu\u017eovi ni\u010d ned\u00e1va, ale len o nie\u010do \u017eiada, l\u00e1ska prest\u00e1va. Aspo\u0148 z jeho strany.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mu\u017e potrebuje zmysel \u017eivota &#8211;&nbsp;<strong>&nbsp;nech je mu\u017eom.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dne\u0161n\u00e9 \u017eeny stratili v\u0161etku svoju&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>\u017eenskos\u0165<\/strong>&nbsp;. \u017densk\u00e9 nezostalo ni\u010d okrem ich genit\u00e1li\u00ed. Ako teda m\u00f4\u017ee mu\u017e milova\u0165 tak\u00fato \u017eenu? Emancipovan\u00e1 \u017eena dnes nepotrebuje, aby ju mu\u017e miloval, preto\u017ee miluje samu seba!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ke\u010f mu\u017e dov\u0155\u0161i \u0161tyridsiatku, v\u0161etko sa spam\u00e4t\u00e1.&nbsp;<\/strong>&nbsp;U\u017e neexistuj\u00fa \u017eiadne il\u00fazie. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina mu\u017eov nem\u00e1 d\u00f4vod zosta\u0165 \u017eenat\u00fd s takou \u017eenou. L\u00e1ska kon\u010d\u00ed. Ak mu\u017e nie je zvyknut\u00fd trpie\u0165, d\u00f4jde k rozvodu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poviem v\u00e1m, \u010do je \u017eensk\u00e1 \u017eena:&nbsp;<strong>&nbsp;nie s\u00fa to prsia, zadok, tv\u00e1r<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8230; \u017denskos\u0165 je neha, \u00facta k mu\u017eovi, teplo, ktor\u00e9 vy\u017earuje. \u017denskos\u0165 je schopnos\u0165 naplni\u0165 vzduch l\u00e1skavos\u0165ou, ne\u017enos\u0165ou, harm\u00f3niou aspo\u0148 jedn\u00e9ho priestoru. Je to schopnos\u0165 nen\u00fati\u0165 mu\u017ea, ale da\u0165 mu nie\u010do, v\u010faka \u010domu sa c\u00edti ako \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd mu\u017e: \u00facta, \u013eahk\u00e1 dominancia, pokoj&#8230;&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>A \u017eiadna hyst\u00e9ria &#8211; pros\u00edm!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Darujte mu\u017eovi ne\u017enos\u0165, vernos\u0165, \u0161tedros\u0165 a bude \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd ved\u013ea v\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mil\u00e9 \u017eeny, m\u00f4\u017eete si nahov\u00e1ra\u0165, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 man\u017eel je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd ved\u013ea v\u00e1s, emancipovan\u00fdch \u017eien, ale po\u010dkajte&#8230;&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>Po piatich alebo desiatich rokoch v\u00e1s ten ist\u00fd \u201e\u0161\u0165astn\u00fd man\u017eel\u201c opust\u00ed, ak ste mu nedovolili len jedno<\/strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;\u2013 by\u0165 mu\u017eom!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dimitri Sokolov nap\u00edsal ve\u013emi \u00faprimn\u00fd \u010dl\u00e1nok o tom, pre\u010do sa 40-ro\u010dn\u00fd mu\u017e nechce a nemal by o\u017eeni\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poviem v\u00e1m, \u010do je \u017eensk\u00e1 \u017eena:&nbsp;<strong>&nbsp;nie s\u00fa to prsia, zadok, tv\u00e1r<\/strong>&nbsp;&#8230; \u017denskos\u0165 je neha, \u00facta k mu\u017eovi, teplo, ktor\u00e9 vy\u017earuje. \u017denskos\u0165 je schopnos\u0165 naplni\u0165 vzduch l\u00e1skavos\u0165ou, ne\u017enos\u0165ou, harm\u00f3niou aspo\u0148 jedn\u00e9ho priestoru. Je to schopnos\u0165 nen\u00fati\u0165 mu\u017ea, ale da\u0165 mu nie\u010do, v\u010faka \u010domu sa c\u00edti ako \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd mu\u017e: \u00facta, \u013eahk\u00e1 dominancia, pokoj&#8230;&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>A \u017eiadna hyst\u00e9ria &#8211; pros\u00edm!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Darujte mu\u017eovi ne\u017enos\u0165, vernos\u0165, \u0161tedros\u0165 a bude \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd ved\u013ea v\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mil\u00e9 \u017eeny, m\u00f4\u017eete si nahov\u00e1ra\u0165, \u017ee v\u00e1\u0161 man\u017eel je \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd ved\u013ea v\u00e1s, emancipovan\u00fdch \u017eien, ale po\u010dkajte&#8230;&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>Po piatich alebo desiatich rokoch v\u00e1s ten ist\u00fd \u201e\u0161\u0165astn\u00fd man\u017eel\u201c opust\u00ed, ak ste mu nedovolili len jedno<\/strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;\u2013 by\u0165 mu\u017eom!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ako sa bl\u00ed\u017eim k&nbsp;&nbsp;\u0161tyridsiatke&nbsp;, vid\u00edm, ako sa \u010doraz viac mojich rovesn\u00edkov rozv\u00e1dza. Niektor\u00ed si na\u0161li mlad\u0161ie \u017eeny a rozhodli sa rozvies\u0165, zatia\u013e \u010do in\u00ed jednoducho odi\u0161li. Dnes je&nbsp;&nbsp;nemo\u017en\u00e9 \u017ei\u0165 s [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1355,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1354","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recept"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1354","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1354"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1354\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1356,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1354\/revisions\/1356"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1355"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1354"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1354"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wundertricks.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1354"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}